Sunday Supplement: A Little Bit of Love

'To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.'

It feels like Valentine's Day has been on overdrive this year, right up until Friday evening I was getting Valentines related emails; 'order by 10pm and get your last minute gifts delivered first thing tomorrow, FREE.' 'No valentine this year? Treat yourself with 20% off!' It was a constant stream of sales tactics that quite frankly put me off wanting to buy anything. If you are buying gifts and you haven't got one by Friday evening I think it's time to give up and be forgot!
Now I have a boyfriend, I have mentioned him before, and we have been together for 6 years (in May) and whilst we don't hate Valentine's Day we have our own way of doing it and this is what I realised this year. I have seen so many people, single or taken, commenting about how commercial Valentine's Day is and how you don't need just one day to show you love you someone, yet those people, mainly the taken ones, are actually doing something to mark the day.  Whether you believe in it, love it, hate it, I bet you did something or there was some mention of the day.

That is the powerful thing of commercialism without you meaning to and despite your best efforts not to you will fall into its trap and there is nothing wrong with that! There is nothing wrong with secretly hoping, I won't tell anyone. Every year myself and Dan buy cards for each other but say no gifts, this year I received these beautiful flowers and some Lindt chocolates. They were a lovely surprise and I am the first to admit I was delighted; hey what's a girl to do in these situations? We then spent the day lounging in bed, watching film after film, followed by a takeaway and more films. For two people who have no time this was idyllic. Valentine's Day provided us with the perfect excuse to do nothing and not feel guilty about it, we were celebrating!

I suppose after that ramble, I promise I didn't plan to do this I sat down and it all just sort of came out, my point is; if you love the day, fantastic, make the most of it, flowers, balloons, champagne, chocolates, a nice meal, it only comes around once a year after all. If you 'hate' the day embrace it for what it represents (without all the gifts and gimmicks), showering your loved ones with, well, love, whether that's your partner, friends or family. Use this day as a reminder to give a little bit of love to those closest to you...starting with yourself.    

I hope you all had a lovely Saturday whatever you did! 


  1. Wow. 6 years is a very long time! Kudos to you and your boyfriend for being able to handle that because a lot of people nowadays only stay together for a few months. :) My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years (5 years in August this year) and the first two years of our relationship was messed up because I'm kinda hard to handle due to my bipolar disorder.

    I think we're fine now although our Valentine's Day date got messed up yesterday. I hope you enjoyed your day though! xx

    Roxanne ♥ | Awkward Turtle

  2. Such a lovely post, I feel exactly the same about Valentines Day. I hope you enjoyed yours xx

  3. I do like Valentine's Day but it definitely is a bit too commercialised! Hope you had a good day all the same // UK Fashion Blog

  4. I absolutely loved this post. I was always a little perplexed as to why single people would go out of their way to hate the holiday. I mean, I'm single and I don't think it really highlights the fact *that* much. I might not have a handsome boy bringing me chocolates, but my dad brings me flowers and I dress up in pink and go out for fancy cocktails with my best friends. There's still a lot of love in our lives, even if there isn't a significant other in the picture :) I love the way you think, lady.

    xo marlen
    Messages on a Napkin

  5. Wow such a lovely post. Thanks for sharing this :)

  6. Such a great, relevant post lovely. I am in a relationship and whilst we really don't make a big deal of valentines day whatsoever, we'll still buy a card, because deliberately doing so is just falling into the commercialised hype of it. So nice to see a thought provoking post about this rather than gift guide after gift guide :)




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